Paul "Butch" Reimer
1940 - 2026
Paul "Butch" Reimer, age 86, of Danbury passed away on June 15, 2026, at Burgess Health Center in Onawa.
Visitation with a Rosary and vigil service were all held on Sunday, June 21st, in St. Mary's Catholic Church in Danbury.
A Mass of Christian Burial was held at 10:30 a.m. on Monday, June 22, 2026, at St. Mary's Catholic Church in Danbury. Father William A. McCarthy and Father Richard D. Ball officiated. Committal services followed in Danbury Catholic Cemetery in Danbury.
The Armstrong-Van Houten Funeral Home of Mapleton was in charge of the funeral arrangements. Condolences may be sent online www.armstrongfuneral.com.
Paul "Butch" Reimer was born on February 9, 1940, on the farm place he called home his entire life, to Albert and Bernice (Boysen) Reimer. He graduated from Danbury Catholic School in 1958. During his school years he enjoyed 4-H, which is now proudly a 3rd generation tradition he started in his family. Butch also enjoyed basketball, but his favorite sport of choice that carried on long after school was softball. First a part of a fast pitch team, the Reimer Colts, he eventually settled into slow pitch softball where many memories were made, including asking his girlfriend Kay to marry him with a proposal and ring telling her, "There is a ring in the glovebox if you want to wear it." She said, "Yes," and they married in Granville on September 4, 1965. They were blessed with four children: Dan, Tim, Kim and Sandy. Butch and Kay taught their kids the importance of family, faith, and farming.
Butch loved having extended family visit; it always meant a helping of Kay's famous potato salad followed by her banana split dessert. He equally loved showing everyone his love of farm life whether on his tractor, giving four-wheeler rides, or making a trip to the pasture to check cows.
Butch's hobbies included work, church, and playing cards. On the Reimer farm, we chuckle that the kids and grandkids learned to play cards before they could read. His favorite games with them were Euchre and Up & Down the River, and you learned early that all friendship ceases at the card table. He enjoyed cards with family to the very end and still managed a smile saying, "Oh, I've seen sicker cats than that get well" when the game score wasn't in his favor. Butch also enjoyed putting puzzles together and following the grandkids in their interests: talking sports with Nate, watching Cody play ball, watching Alley show cattle, and sharing with Courtney the care and keeping of animals on summer visits.
Butch lost his wife in 2017 which changed everything, and family and friends stepped up to fill the void. Through the past few years, his health challenges taught him that he may never throw a punch but he was one heck of a fighter, always keeping the faith that one day he would get back to the farm he had come to cherish.
Butch moved to Maple Heights Nursing Home where he was cared for, treated, and loved like a grandpa, and they became like family. He was still expected to be to dinner on time, do chores in the kitchen peeling potatoes, keeping his faith and taking part in giving thanks, and saying the Rosary. He still made trips to the farm to see his son Dan, his lifelong farming partner, to see the farm and how the cattle and crops were doing.
The highlight of 2026 was getting to meet his only great-grandchild, Lainey James, who, from the get go, put a smile on his face and a reminder of love in his heart.
We will remember Butch in a song by Holly Dunn titled "Daddy's Hands." We will remember daddy's hands folded silently in prayer. You could read quite a story in the calluses and lines; years of work and worry had left their mark behind. Daddy's hands weren't always gentle, but we've come to understand there was always, always love in daddy's hands.
Those left to cherish his memory are his children Dan (Brenda) of Danbury, Tim Reimer (Angie Lawless) of Lawson, MO, Kim (Ron) Boyle of St. Charles, IA, and Sandy Rice (Pat Duffy) of Poynette, WI. Grandchildren include Riley Kafton (Dan TenEyck) of Dunlap, Sam Kafton of Sanborn, Cody and Alley Boyle of St. Charles, Nate Rice of Marshall, WI, Courtney Rice of Green Bay, WI, and great-grandchild Lainey TenEyck. He also has one sister Lois Ekarius of Danbury; other close family friends include Tammy, Sam, and Charlie Nelson of Anthon.
He was preceded in death by his wife Kay; his parents Albert and Bernice Reimer; sisters Marilyn "Tootie" Boyle and Arlene "Punk" Reimer; and parents-in-law Gerald and Edna McCarthy.
Butch was blessed to be a true farmer until the end, leaving with crops in the field and cows in the pasture at 86.
Marilyn M. Palmer, age 90, of Smithland passed away on Saturday, June 6, 2026, at her residence.
Jill Ellen Karhoff, age 53, of Glendale, AZ (formerly of Danbury), passed away on May 16, 2026, at her residence.